Dream, Dare, Dance! An Unforgettable Day at Rosendale, Delft

We were incredibly privileged to host our Dream and Dare Day at Rosendale Primary School in Delft, Cape Town, in partnership with the Connect Network and with the generous support of the Nelson Mandela Children’s Fund. We connected with 175 Grade 6 learners – 82 boys and 93 girls – delivering our program in four classrooms in both English and Afrikaans.

The days were bursting with laughter, learning, dancing, singing, meaningful discussions, and some seriously big questions. It was more than just a program – it was a celebration of potential, purpose, and hope.

Dream Day Highlights

One of the most moving moments came during a discussion about God’s purpose for each of us. We reminded the girls that no obstacle is too big for our big Father God – and that nothing is impossible with Him. Many shared dreams of becoming lawyers, teachers, or doctors, and we explored how the choices they make today – like staying in school, completing homework, and focusing in class – can help bring those dreams to life.

Each girl then planted a seed in soil – a beautiful, hands-on symbol of their dream. Just like that seed, their dream will need care, patience, and intentional effort to grow.

Another powerful part of the day was our session on puberty and menstruation. The girls had so many curious, honest questions, and we were honored to create a space where they felt safe and supported. We talked about everything from how babies are made to the purpose of periods, anatomy, and myth-busting misconceptions.

Here’s what a few girls had to say about the experience:

“The program actually taught me about how I am unique and how to accept my body changes and to know that it's normal.”

“I liked that the teachers had experience of what we are going through.”

“I liked that I felt safe, happy, and comfortable to speak.”

“I liked the fact that we could ask anything we wanted without being judged.”

Dare Day with the Boys

We were excited to return to Rosendal Primary for our second Dare Day in two years. After the first Dare Day, we didn’t think we would return to the school—but this Dare Day was different.

We were greeted with enthusiasm by the Grade 6 boys’ class, who were engaged in the programme from the start. The boys were very interactive with the topics—something not often experienced with a Grade 6 class, asking questions and sharing comments. We ran the day in both Afrikaans and English, while the Afrikaans in the material was at times challenging, it opened the door for deeper explanation and clearer understanding.

The topic of sex sparked honest and sometimes humorous conversations. The boys shared their current understanding of what sex is, and we guided them toward a biblical understanding of sex – when it’s meant to happen and why God designed it. We also tackled the topic of pornography, where many admitted (through responses) that they had viewed it before. This led to some myth-busting and truth-sharing, which they received with curiosity and openness.

The session ended with a challenge to “Dare to be Different.” While most of the boys accepted the challenge, a few declined – and that’s okay. Seeds were planted.

We were able to complete all topics without rushing, and it was clear which boys were deeply engaged and genuinely seeking answers. It was a privilege to speak into their lives, clear up confusion, and encourage them to walk a path of purpose and courage.

Overall, it was a very successful day with the boys. The feedback we received further confirms that they experienced something new and different—and it was appreciated. When asked if they would join again if we returned, the answer was an overwhelming “yes!”